our job is not to trick them or manage them or make them fall in line, our job is to offer refuge from the bullshit, to level with them. if you're hoping that just by getting rid of him you're gonna stop what's going on outside, they gonna see right through that. 每种对民粹的迎合男朋友说我越叫他越想要都是在操弄和贬低人本身